Spiritual Maladies

Hadhrat Maulana Shah Abrarul Haq Hardoi Sahib نوراللہ مرقدہ said,

“When a doctor gives a Prince an injection, he doesn’t consider himself superior to the Prince. In the same way the one speaking about Deen should not consider himself superior to the listeners. Regarding the expert of a field as perfect [Akmal] is permissible, but to regard as superior is Haram. Because the criteria of virtue/superiority is based on acceptance by Allah Ta’ala [Qubuliyat inda’Allah], which can not be found out about in the Dunya.

The dignity of every believer should be in the heart. It’s not permissible for any ‘Alim or Shaykh-e-Kamil even to consider a sinful Muslim despising. If a small child urinates on the father, the clothes of the father would be considered impure but there won’t be any decrease in the dignity of the father. Hadhrat Thanvi نوراللہ مرقدہ used to say, ‘Whenever I take care of someone[‘s affairs], I consider him superior to myself.’

Similarly, I consider my mother & sisters and you people superior to myself too, but am [at the same time] telling the commands of Allah Ta’ala.”

I think the subject of arrogance is fitting for this book considering its importance; among the sins it is the most dangerous disease not only in my opinion, but also according to the Quran and Sunnah. It is absolutely destructive in the path of tariqat.

Imam Ghazali dedicated an entire chapter in his book Ihya-ul-Uloom, in which he delineated the importance of this subject. He writes: Allah has stated the dangers of arrogance in many ayaat of the Quran. He says, I shall turn from My ayaat those who behave arrogantly on the earth, without a right…Only he who is truly great has the right to think he is great, and that is no one but Allah. (Bayan ul Quran)

In another ayah he says, “Thus, does Allah seal up the heart of every arrogant, tyrant.” In another he says, ‘Truly, He likes not the proud169.’ In another ayah he says, And your Lord said, ‘Invoke Me, I will respond to your invocation. Verily! Those who scorn My worship, they will enter Hell in humiliation!

And the evil of arrogance has been mentioned repeatedly in the Quran; and the Blessed Prophet Salallahu ‘Alayhi Wasallam said in the hadith, ‘He will not enter Jannah who has a grain of arrogance in his heart.’

Abu Hurairah Radiyallahu 'anhu narrates the Blessed Prophet Salallahu ‘Alayhi Wasallam said, ‘Allah says, - Greatness is my shawl and magnificence is my izaar (lower garment). I will throw in Jahannum anyone who tries to snatch anyone of these from me and will not care for the consequences.’

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A few ill-informed Saalikeen have this great misconception: They believe that, when their hearts are inclined towards a certain sin, they should commit this sin so that their hearts may find contentment and be at ease.

They believe that this will cause the desire for this sin to cease. They believe that, subsequently, their desires will decrease and they will then be able to leave the sin completely and repent (make taubah). They then become greatly involved in this calamity.

This is a very serious misconception and a deception of Shaytaan, because the more you commits a sin, the more your desire for that sin increases and the greater its demands upon your Nafs becomes. The only remedy for sin is not to commit the sin at all. [Anwarus Siraj, pg. 19]

Gheebat is both the father as well as the son of animosity. Sometimes gheebat is the result of animosity, and sometimes animosity is the result of gheebat. This is indeed an abominable lineage.

We have all seen that when one person is bent on harming another, he becomes oblivious to Deen. He does not abstain from harming the other person or from lies and deception. His objective is only to cause harm to his enemy, regardless of the destruction he causes to himself.

The actual nature of Takabbur (pride) is the feeling of superiority which arises in one on account of some attribute of excellence [or some achievement]. This feeling engenders contempt for others. If this feeling arises involuntarily, one will not be blameworthy – provided that one does not act in accordance with the dictates of this involuntary takabbur. In other words, one should not proclaim by word or deed one’s superiority nor show any contempt for others.

If this feeling of superiority is by deliberate design, or even if it is not by deliberate design, but one acts in accordance to the demands of takabbur, then one will be guilty of the crime of PRIDE.

The remedy for this malady is to praise and speak good of the person whom one despises. Meet him with honour, respect and humility.

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